and I texted Ben I go, man. We're yeah, I'm guilty of this in other areas of my life, right? Because again, if you spot it, you got it. So anytime I notice something other people I'm like we're in my life. Do I make the same stupid mistake? And I was like, oh, it'd be like, like, yesterday I canceled. I do something. I very rarely do. I almost never do this. I canceled my workout because I was like, had to doctors appointments, and I was like, if I, if I do, this will work out the middle of day, then I'm just not gonna get any work done today. Cancel my workout was like, but my number one goal right now. In life is to get fit. I would get more value out of becoming more fit than making another dollar. Yeah,

54 days left, I think, right?

Yeah, Monday. I'm on 49. 49 days left.

Yep. Yeah. 49 days left to get abs. I'm

eight weeks away from being that guy. So so, but I guess I The point is that's an area of my life, where I make a stupid decision that's unwise decision to say, hey on one day, I said, this is my main goal and then three days later, I'm prioritizing something else above my main goal. What that doesn't make any sense. And same way this person is doing that with your relationship. Their main goal is to get married have kids but they prioritize a bunch of other stuff and I was like, that's not intelligence, that's wisdom. Like that's basically having good judgment and I realized that like wisdom or good judgment is the thing. That's most short in Supply and And the most valuable because it's like a lever you don't have to be that hard working or that smart. If you have great judgment, if you pick the right things to focus on pick the right, people to work with pick the right place to live. You don't have to be like 9,000 IQ. You don't have to know everything about everything. You don't have to be the hardest worker, but if you have poor judgment, no amount of hard work or like, intelligence really saves you, you kind of screw yourself and so just really emphasize that point to me about like, you know, Does not equal wise and the goal is wise not smart. I think

that's a good one. I like that and it's like when you're driving and you say everyone such a horrible driver. It's like dude that is get you to it's like there's like some weird emotion and logic that don't make sense there.